He gets defensive when I ask him questions

If you ask him a simple question such as, "Why were you late coming home?" And he flies off the handle and starts getting defensive, then you may have a cheater.  Cheaters will usually try to turn things around on their mates and make them feel the guilt they are feeling.  The cheater may also initiate a fight with you so he has a reason to leave for a few hours to "think" or "cool off."  This means being able to see their mistress.

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